Poker Table Etiquette – Part Two: Managing Emotions at the Poker Table
Poker Table Etiquette – Part Two
The feeling you get at the poker table can’t be replicated anywhere else; it’s why we play the game. A big part of protecting that experience is practicing good poker table etiquette, which goes beyond basic rules and table manners. It also means managing your emotions and maintaining the right mindset during the game.
It’s completely understandable to feel upset after suffering a bad beat, but how you respond in that moment matters. Taking your frustrations out on another player makes that person uncomfortable, kills the mood at the table, and hurts your own ability to stay focused. If you feel the urge to react, there are simple ways to reset your emotions, improve your mindset, and get your head back in the game where it belongs. I use these techniques all the time and have found them to be quite effective. Hopefully they will work for you too.
Technique One: Inject Logic
When you encounter a situation at the poker table where your emotions seem to be getting the best of you, take a moment to think clearly about what you are actually accomplishing by reacting. Ask yourself what is gained by giving another player a hard time. In most cases, the answer is very little. You may make that player feel bad, damage the atmosphere at the table, and even help that opponent improve by pointing out a mistake they may not have noticed on their own.
When you simply look at the facts it’s easy to see what the right decision is: Keep your thoughts to yourself and do your best to let it go. Not only does this help keep the game fun for everyone, but it also keeps your head in the game and protects your own mindset. Of course, this is much easier said than done, which brings me to the next point.
Technique Two: Know Thyself
No one knows how you react at the poker table better than you. You know what triggers frustration and anger for you. You know how well or poorly you deal with it. You know what makes you tilt and play less than you’re A-game. Every player is different, so part of maintaining the right mindset is understanding what works for you. If taking a break from the table helps you get back on track, do it. If you need to stay at the table and work through it, do it. If you need to vent to feel better, do it, but not at the table.
The bottom line is that understanding your emotions and managing them effectively is an important part of poker table etiquette. Understand where your strengths and weaknesses lie and manage them accordingly. By keeping your emotions in check, you help create a friendlier game and give yourself a better chance to play well.
Until next time see you at the tables!


